Parents views on interracial dating
It can be an intimidating experience, even when meeting the most accepting of families.
In an interracial relationship, meeting the parents can be even scarier as you anticipate potential objections, disapproval or awkward questions.
Yancey says that whites might interdate less because they are a numerical majority within American society.
And he adds that whites are also more likely to be racially isolated than people of color—a notion sociologists lump under the term "propinquity," which describes the tendency for people to work better or bond with those geographically near them.
Assess your comfort level with interracial objections and determine if the relationship is worth the stress. Consider yourselves the Capulets and Montagues — with a happier beat-the-odds ending.Likewise, their dreams for their child to marry someone within their race aren’t going to disappear overnight.You may discover that your date’s parents immediately embrace you, thrilled that their child has found someone so wonderful — obviously — as you."If you think about communities in the Midwest, in places such as [rural] Wisconsin and Montana, if you're white and even if you're open to interracially dating, there are not that many people of color around," Yancey says."Chances are, if you're a person of color, you're more likely to be exposed to European Americans than vice versa." However, his analysis also found that neither living in an integrated neighborhood nor attending an integrated place of worship boosted people's interdating rates as much as attending an integrated school. adults, 86 percent of people ages 18 to 29 approved of marriage between blacks and whites, but just 30 percent of those ages 65 and older approved of such marriages.
Still, hesitations may arise later on as the relationship gets more serious.